on Deathwork & Griefwork – Page 7

a pink paper heart ripped in the middle, hanging on a red and white striped wire against a black background

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I dream of disappointing my mother

Posted on 11 December 2022

I had a bad dream which was trying to be a good dream, but it was a bad dream because none of it is true.

'never forgotten' spray painted on an old metal door

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TDOR: our safe spaces become violent

Posted on 20 November 2022

I want to remember my trans siblings today, but instead I have to witness from afar the same thing that always happens to us: violence, death, hatred.

a dark path lined by trees, looking toward a break in the horizon bright with sunshine

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decolonizing death, part one of many

Posted on 15 October 2022

I am doing my best to find the most harmonious way to hold my candle in the darkness so that you can see it and find me, bringing your own light, so that we hav...